While driving lately I've noticed my own impatience with people when I really shouldn't be impatient with them. Why am I in such a hurry? Often there's not really a need to be. I mean, all the groceries I need at the store will still be there no matter if I get there in five minutes or fifteen.
Add to that my listening to the new Arcade Fire over the weekend and very much noticing the song "We Used To Wait" in relation to this same idea. In it, Win Butler sings about how we used to write letters and then we had to wait for the return letter to get to us. Part of the lyrics go:
I used to write,
I used to write letters I used to sign my name
I used to sleep at night
Before the flashing lights settled deep in my brain
But by the time we met
By the time we met the times had already changed
So I never wrote a letter
I never took my true heart I never wrote it down
So when the lights cut out
I was left standing in the wilderness downtown
Now our lives are changing fast
Now our lives are changing fast
Hope that something pure can last
Hope that something pure can last
It seems strange
How we used to wait for letters to arrive
But what's stranger still
Is how something so small can keep you alive
We used to wait
We used to waste hours just walking around
We used to wait...
This reminded me of watching an episode of Who Do You Think You Are with my parents this past Spring when they were visiting. This particular episode was on Sarah Jessica Parker's ancestry. Somewhere early in the story, they discovered one of her past relatives decided to go from Ohio (I think) to San Francisco for the Gold Rush of 1849.
This trek took people just over four months to complete by covered wagon and it was a given that several people who started out on the trip would not be alive by the time they reached their final destination. When they talked about that, it made me pause and think about how we are today.
Now we complain if the flight from Cincinnati to San Francisco takes an hour longer than it was supposed to (around 4.5 hours average on a direct flight) and odds are pretty good that nobody is going to die on the trip.
I know, I know... progress and technology and all that have made this better.
But have they really?
One of the things I that I think helped get us so off course was the propagation of the idea that time equals money.
Somewhere back in the annals (wouldn't that be a horrible word to let spell check pass through as spelled correctly when you forgot to include the second "n"?) of history, time didn't equal money. Time equaled quality.
The more time you put to something, the better it was (presumably). The better it was, the more you could charge for it. You might not get rich monetarily from this approach, but you likely would be rich in other things—reputation, customer loyalty, assurance in knowing you were doing something worthwhile, etc.
While the idea that time can equal quality is still true (we still use the phrase "quality time" after all), the idea that time equals money has permeated every corner of our lives to a much larger degree I think. We can't get things done fast enough.
We have to check our email when we should simply be enjoying an evening with friends or family. We are in a rush to get from point A to point B because the time in between them is just a waste if we're not being productive. If the person in front of us at the light sits still for two seconds after the light turns green, we're jamming on our horns.
We're constantly in a hurry to get to the business of doing business, or whatever else is so important we can't spare a few minutes.
Is the idea that time equals money behind all of this?
Is this why we've made the trade-off for eating things that are worse for us over things that are better that we'd have to make? Is it behind the problems Apple is being called out for on the iPhone 4? Is it why Toyota ran into issues this past year? Is it at the root of the debacle that BP created?
What would the world be like if we never invented the equation that time equaled money and instead left it as time equaled quality? Would we take more time to do things right? Or is it just our nature to not want to put in any more work on things than we have to?
Anyway, just some stuff that has been rolling around in my head over the past
few months as it relates to time. Most likely because my perception of
time has shifted now that I have had to learn to master all of it instead of
having a lot of it mastered for me. Would love to hear any thoughts you have, if you have any on it...
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